He didn’t cheat. He didn’t walk out.

He just checked out, emotionally.

For 28 years, he ran to what made him feel competent. Work, performance, control.

When things got hard at home, he got angry. Not because he didn’t love her, but because he didn’t know how to love at all.

When his wife left, the silence was deafening. And in that silence, the lies flooded in. You’re a narcissist. Nobody loves you. You’re unsafe.

Two days later, on the edge of suicide, Jeff gave his life to Christ.

What followed wasn’t instant peace, it was fire. Years of studying Scripture, walking through seminary, and confronting the parts of himself shaped by trauma and misalignment.

He came to see that the things he was accused of - control, emotional detachment, anger - were real, but they weren’t the whole truth. They were the result of trauma and shadows of the gifts God placed in him from the beginning.

Strength without grounding.
Authority without tenderness.
Presence without safety.

And still, God met him. Not with shame. But with a deeper mission.

To heal what his silence had harmed.

Today, Jeff walks slowly.
He listens. He holds space.
He no longer takes others’ projections as truth.

Through Scripture, emotional healing, and spiritual clarity, Jeff is becoming the man he was created to be.

A powerful, faith-rooted guide designed to bring courage, connection, and unconditional love to a world in pain.

His story didn’t end in collapse.
It began there.

And now, that’s where he meets others, at the beginning of their return to who they were always meant to be.